Scrolling through the current slate of films playing at my local megaplex, I can't help but notice the stark lack of romantic comedies that have been released over the past few years. It seems like not too long ago that rom-coms were part and parcel with summer blockbusters — but I suppose that was before Garry Marshall inflicted his odious trilogy of nauseating holiday septic tanks (Valentine's Day, New Year's Eve, Mother's Day) on the world. It's pretty tough to bounce back from an assault like that.
I wouldn't say it's necessarily a bad thing that traditional, formulaic rom-coms aren't as popular as they once were. In many ways it's a good sign. It means that Hollywood has at least started the arduous process of pulling its head out of its ass and realizing that women are just as diverse an audience as men, and that there is no longer such a thing as a "chick flick." But just because this diversity is becoming a bit more accepted, doesn't mean people stopped wanting movies about love — not Garry fucking Marshall's syrupy contrivance of love, but the kind of love that humans occasionally develop for one another. We want movies about actual love, not #LoveActually.
Judd Apatow gets it. He knows that actual love is funny, gross and often painful. With that perspective in mind, he's given us some of the best romantic comedies of the past decade (The 40-Year-Old Virgin, Knocked Up, This is 40, Trainwreck).
As for 2017, he's produced a gem of a film called The Big Sick, which has spent the first half of the year tearing up the festival circuit. I caught it during the Sundance Film Festival (check out my full review here), and have been thinking about it ever since.
While I don't know if it'll herald a sudden resurgence in romantic comedies, there is something punk rock and exciting about the way it repurposes a tired genre into a bold, unflinching look at the crazy shit that love sees fit to inflict upon us. If you're not planning on seeing this film during its summer wide release, or think rom-coms are beneath you, here are some reasons for you to reconsider your life choices.
The Protagonists Are All Of Us
Before we even get started, you must know one thing about this film: It's based on the courtship of the film's writers Kumail Nanjiani and Emily V. Gordon. Early in their relationship, Gordon had to be placed into a medically induced coma while Nanjiani waited by her side and grew closer to her family and loved ones. Today, the two are married and doing cool shit, like writing movies together. The film fictionalizes some aspects of their story, but as outlandish as the plot may seem, it really happened to real people who really fell in love.
This is The Big Sick's secret weapon. It subverts the romantic comedy genre by telling a real story instead a fairy tale. As it turns out, messing with the previously established rules of romantic comedies pays off. Outside of Apatow's movies, the first film that comes to mind as an example is 2009's The Proposal. As a whole, it's very much entrenched in the #romcom fairy tale narrative, but shifting the gender/power ratio of its romantic leads created an interesting approach that worked — the film grossed over $160 million. More traditional films released in 2009, like He's Just Not That Into You and The Ugly Truth didn't manage to gross more than $100 million, to give you some perspective.
It's ironic that the best way to make a decent romantic comedy is to be honest, which is exactly what happens in #TheBigSick. It's a love story that could actually happen, because, well — it actually did happen.
The Romantic Leads Don't Spend Much Time On Screen Together
The moments that Emily (played by Zoe Kazan) and Nanjiani share on screen are few and far between, which enhances the scenes they do share. We're used to romantic comedies shoving the leads in our faces whenever possible, likely because they're both A-list actors and isn't that why you came to the movie in the first place? In The Big Sick, the love story develops thanks to Kumail and Emily's respective families, played by a phenomenal supporting cast (Anupam Kher, Zenobia Shroff, Ray Romano, Holly Hunter, to name a few).
We get to experience the heart-pounding early stages of a relationship with Kumail and Emily, but her inevitable coma — and their relationship status before said coma — sets a fascinating tone for the rest of the film. Like anyone who has seriously pondered what it means to be in love with another person, Kumail spends much of the film by himself, getting to know Emily's family while he figures out his relationship with his own. That's not to say that his scenes with Emily are downplayed or lack power — Nanjiani and Kazan have incredible on-screen chemistry together. After seeing their relationship develop during the film's first act, we desperately want to see more of them.
The plot device of having one of the romantic leads in a coma for most of the film lets the film explore the reality of being in love. Even though he's hesitant to do so at first, Kumail takes a huge emotional risk by getting to know Emily's parents and becoming an unexpected part of their life while she is in a coma. As nobody knows when or if she will wake up, Kumail's investment in taking care of her could completely blow up in his face. Never have I seen a romantic comedy in which the stakes are so high.
It's Really Damn Funny
A quick scroll through The Big Sick's cast and crew list tells us this film has a well-stocked arsenal of comedic talent bringing it to life. Nanjiani is one of the funniest comedians in the business, and The Big Sick lets him capitalize on his understated, geek-centric brand of humor while exploring the beautiful pathos of his predicament. Veteran comic Ray Romano offers an unexpected turn as Emily's father, his deadpan façade slowly peeling back to reveal the rocky path that his own love story has trod. Holly Hunter's ability to sharpen everyday words into deadly weapons is in full force here, and her scenes with Nanjiani are some of the film's best.
Anupam Kher and Zenobia Shroff as Kumail's traditional parents — who insist on inviting eligible Pakistani bachelorettes over every time their single son visits — could have very easily been written as one-dimensional meddlers. However, Kher and Shroff bring just the right amount of warmth and comedy to their characters, making us see them through the eyes of their son.
The cast is spot on, but let's not overlook director Michael Showalter, who co-created Wet Hot American Summer and directed 2015's underrated comedy Hello, My Name is Doris. He's the type of director who realizes that comedy and drama are more closely related than we expect, and he strikes a perfect balance between the two with The Big Sick.
Just See It Already
I love big-budget, CGI-fueled superhero movies as much as anyone, but I honestly miss movies about real people — as long as they're good movies, that is. The Big Sick happens to be a great movie about real people, so get it before this year's onslaught of AAA blockbusters invade the megaplexes. It's difficult to tell when a chance like this will come around again.
The Big Sick releases to theaters on July 14. Have you got a favorite rom-com? Tell us about it in the comments below.