I just read an article on how Angelina Jolie & Brad Pitt have sought out professional advicefrom a Transgender doctor for their daughter, Shiloh who has apparently decided that she is a boy. Having 4 kids of my own, my daughter loves to fashion all she does after her 2 older brothers and has claimed she is a boy as well. She looks up to them and wants to be just like them. I take care to remind her that we are all equals and that it's a beautiful mystery why we have come to this world as the gender that we are. I'm not an advocate for children having sex changes or taking hormone altering drugs to stop nature. I do however believe that an emotionally healthy well informed and educated adult has the right to decide if they want to go under the knife or not. This huge choice may not have them finding the so called pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, though. I believe a person's sexuality is a unique and wonderful gift that should be cherished and celebrated.
We must embrace females who love females and males who love males just the same as we embrace heterosexuality. To change one's gender to fit the status quo is something I cannot subscribe to personally. To me, how you came to be in this world is evidence enough for your very purpose here.